Get Ya Flirt On!
Okay… Okay, Yes I know things are no where near back to normal but as of now some places you can kinda get out… low key. lol I mean its summer, it’s normal to have the urge to be outside, out and about! Be safe guys. This post is not to encourage going out and risking it all, but if you do decide to go out (ie to a park, on a walk or small gathering of friends lol) and you see that fine somebody (imaging whats under the mask) here are some tips.
1. Use eye contact. You want to look into someone’s soul. This shows that you’re confident. And nothing is sexier than confidence! Now while wearing masks too, that may be your only way to connect. Smile with your eyes!
2. Touch. In the correct setting, this is so important. When you use touch (on a man or woman) you make them feel at ease. Gentle arm touches makes anyone go crazy. Holding a handshake a little longer or even giving a hug (not a church hug lol) goes a long way. Random tip, but moisturize daily! This keeps your skin soft and keeps you smelling amazing. I have had both men and women compliment me on my skin after an embrace.
3. Scent. Find out what scent goes best with your natural body odor. Layer with certain oils and body creams. This, coupled with a hug is so alluring. Have you ever smelled a familiar fragrance that made you think of a certain person, place or special time in your life? That’s the affect you want to leave. Also, make sure that your breath is always fresh. You don’t want them to have a negative memory of you.
4. Smile! If you mask is off for a sec, slip in a smile. A smile goes a long way. I feel like this is one of my own best personal features. This with all of the other steps leaves a lasting impression on someone. They associate you with warmth.
5. Practice in the mirror. Practice smiling, a sultry gaze, batting your eye lashes, etc. Do this for at least 10 minutes everyday until it doesn’t feel weird. While practicing in the mirror, it doesn’t hurt to say affirmations. You want to say these often until you believe them.
Practice on EVERYONE! Men and women. Remember, this can be fun! This will only get you comfortable, confident, and used to doing it. It will become so innate that you don’t realize you’re doing it. You’ll be able to captivate anyone!
Two books regarding this topic are: Art of Seduction and Ho Tactics.
There is also a video that speaks to the power of touch. Oprah has mastered this. Watch how she does it here.
Happy Flirting Ladies!
xoxo