Keep It Sexy.

Be it you in a relationship or not we always want to keep it sexy and fun when it comes to what happens in the bedroom! Here are a few tips to get you in the mood to try something new to spice up your love life.

Beyonce, Rocket Video 2013

Beyonce, Rocket Video 2013

I would say, we all like a little something new every now and again, so why not surprise your lover with some fun things to spice up the bedroom. It can be the smallest details that change the whole mood. Check out some tips below!

1. Get out of bed.  

Changing the scenery is one of the simplest ways to keep a sense of excitement in your sex life.

2. Make eye contact.  

Focus on making eye contact with your partner in bed.  You don’t want to have a staring contest lol but making eye contact is super passionate and when you feel particularly confident you will instantly transfer that energy to your partner.

3. Role-play.  

Role-playing is a fun way for you and your partner to act out your wildest fantasies.  Give “reverse cowgirl” a whole new meaning and dress up like a sexy cow girl.  Anything goes.  As long as you both are comfortable, role-playing can provide hours of entertainment.

4. Good enough to eat.  

Play a little game with chocolate, whipped cream, honey, or any other of your favorite flavors.  Your job: place the sweets of your choice on the spots you want your partner to pay some extra attention.  Your partner’s job: find the flavors …Eyes closed.

5. A little BDSM

Pull out the whips and chains baby! lol You don’t have to get crazy but a blind fold, a whip or a little feather teasing can be fun. Do your research. Think about what you like and enhancing it. You like to be spanked? Why not use a crop to spice up the mood.

6. Have a faux affair. (With bae!)

I love this one. This can really turn into a whole date night. Tell bae to meet you at the bar at a sexy spot in your town at a specific time. Plan to show up looking extra sexy & scrumptious. I personally would buy a new dress they’ve never seen, buy new lingerie if you will be wearing any lol, try a new sexy scent, and do something new with your hair. Really try to embody your alter ego. Keep an eye out for a unisex bathroom and tell them to meet in there or before you all leave make quick pit stop. If you can find the perfect public place… get it on in the car!

7. Get a room.

Hotels can be fun! Pack your bag and during the day one Friday, text bae to pack a bag and meet you at the hotel you choose. Book a room for the night at a sexy hotel. The W always gives me “Sexy” vibes with the frosted exposed showers and mini bar perks and treats. Meet bae at the door in lingerie, robe or nothing. Have you alls favorite drink and a sexy snack ready to start off the evening.

Here are a couple of ideas for you and your lover. I hope you all enjoy and keep it sexy in the bedroom or where ever you choose.

You deserve it!

xoxo

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